Hey babyyylovess 💋
This week my mind has been running wild to say the least.. I’ve been getting in touch with my natural side (I only mean natural hair and nails!) Just having a little break nothing too extreme! I am embracing it slowly but surely. I’ve decided to work on myself not directly my outside but my whole inside being.. I’m all about love growth and positivity.. and as a woman I’m feeding myself and the world the right knowledge so all three elements work well in my favour.
This natural journey gave me inspiration to write todays post because truth be told I am very passionate about this topic and it really grinds my gear how us women are letting today’s society eat our real hearts and innocent souls.
As women we are expected to fill in our eyebrows with a concealed outline to be considered ‘cute’, have a 1000+ followers to be seen ‘popular’, wear waist trainers to shrink our bodies and wear 26 inch Brazilian weave to be on “fleek”. All for some attention from men and a quick buzz from social media.😔
The pressure of the media and society’s ideas of ‘perfection’ are smothering our desire to express our individuality and it’s way too much! Now chillll dont get me wrong I too love a good eyebrow usually and some luscious Peruvian bundles but does knowing how to conceal your eyebrows show your loving heart or kind nature? 😐..Does buying MAC makeup cover up your insecurities and darkest secrets? I think not b 😐..
Now is it real? Eyebrows, fingernails, hair.. Is it real? if its not, girl you don’t care, cause what’s real is something that the eyes cant see. – J.Cole
Under all the distractions are you a happy person on the inside? Do you know who you are on the inside? Or does it not matter because if someone approaches you with these questions it will seem like they are “haters” or hating on how “fleeky your make up is” Nah hunny I just prefer the real you! Flaws and all!
Everyday there’s something new that pops up on Instagram on how we can change our being whether that be a magic waist trainer/ new makeup / new hair BUT HOW ABOUT we just love what was created instead of trying to tweek little things on the outside that really we have no business fixing what God already put his paint brush on 🎨
Love yourself, girl or nobody will. Though your a woman I don’t know how you deal.. With all the pressure to look impressive and go out in heels! I feel for you.. killing yourself to find a man that’ll kill for you – J.cole
As we are starting to change ourselves our men of this generation are also starting to accept this deception and now they think it’s right to have there own perception of how us women should look, dress act and feel. This has got to stop now! Don’t change for a man! Don’t change for today’s society! Don’t change YOU!
QUEENS you’ve got to start embracing, loving and learning ❤️👑.. Be YOU, You CANNOT BE COPIED. be BOLD. Work on the inside before anything else.
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